50 Traits of a Confident Man

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Believe it or not, but some women have only been sent flowers from men once or twice in the lifetime usually by twenties to thirties. Nowadays, men crave more for women they can neither control, nor predict. They can still be internally insecure and shallow and be internally lonely.

I'm very well traveled and work with international clients. No one, and I mean no one is confident all of the time with dating. Turn toward her from the waist, which will give her the opportunity to turn toward you.

50 Traits of a Confident Man

Is saying that you want a confident woman just a polite euphemism for saying that you want a hot woman, because hot women are confident due to the fact that they have constant external and internal validation that they are hot. It just seems as though anytime low self esteem is opined, people bleat like sheep that one needs to 'just be confident'. To me confidence comes from knowing that you are good at something because you have practiced a lot, know the material well, etc. So what if you intrinsically and extrinsically know you don't have a lot to offer lookswise. For example, I wouldn't be confident just for the sake of being confident if I knew that I hadn't studied for a test or hadn't practiced my violin solo enough or what have you. Does it seem a tad silly when an unattractive woman carries herself with confidence. As men, don't you sort of think, What's she so confident about. She must be delusional to feel good about herself when her face looks like that. Would you really pick a confident 5 or 6 over a diffident 7,8 or 9. Confident people who are secure in who they are tend to carry themselves with a certain radiance. I recall once a girl got her heel stuck in a grate and stumbled. I turned around and saw it happen. I was about to ask if she was alright but as soon as she made women like confident men with me she flashed this bright-beaming smile. Here we had a plain looking, slightly overweight girl who just gracelessly stumbled into someone on the street. Rather than being shy, bashful, or embarrassed about it she still had a sunny disposition and gave no fucks about what anyone thought of her. That alone took her from average to attractive in my book. Attraction isn't just an issue of aesthetic appreciation. That's part of it, but it's literally a sense of attraction. It's a force that makes you want to be near a person. Attractive people are attractive because they have a certain magnetism about them. Being around them is an experience that fulfills some need you have. Someone who brightens your day, regardless of appearance, can do this. Someone who is merely pretty, but odious to be around cannot. I'd rather just look at a picture from a distance if talking to them was off-putting. Just because South Asians have a similar stereotype doesn't mean you guys don't have actual cultural differences in this arena. Is there a point to this rabbit-hole or are you just picking nits for the sake of being a git. Is anything substantively changed by the fact that East and South are different. I'm very well traveled and work with international clients. I have a pretty women like confident men idea of how other cultures work thank you. I know of no culture in the world where people prefer the sourpuss to the ray of sunshine. You can be endearingly bumbling and apologetic while still putting out positive energy because you're eager to please. I am that sort of insecure male. And my fiance is so much more confident. And how I look at this thing it's not as emasculating but as a way for me to men up. And that's how after 7 years I became more confident. I loved her because what she made me and not how she was. In the same way she became more sensitive to me. Women and man are the way they are and I don't think that man are exclusively looking for confident or less confident partner. You just need to find the right person who puts up with your crazy world. The main issue many men have with confident women is that confident women won't put up with their bullshit. Insecure women will, because they don't feel worthy. You seem to equate confidence only with women like confident men. Stephen Hawking looks like someone ate him and shit him into that chair, and he's a confident guy. Because he knows what he's talking about. In my experience, hot women are only better at pretending to be confident. They're just as fucked up as any other human. Stephen Hawking looks like someone ate him and shit him into that chair, and he's a confident guy. From what I've heard, he was an asshole before he got put in the chair. Makes sense that he'd still be confident, what with being the Godfather of Physics now that Feynmann is gone. It's really the classic confidence vs. I like a confident woman who is modest and doesn't come off as someone who thinks she's better than everyone else. When a woman is confident and friendly, it really sets the tone for me. Women without confidence can be hot, but it's aggravating as a guy to work long and hard to get them to finally open up about their thoughts just to find that they aren't the right person for you. I don't think it's silly to be confident if you aren't attractive, skilled, etc. Some of the women I really enjoyed hanging out with had very little going on physically, but their confidence just made them fun to be around. I have my shallow qualities, but it's always personality that keeps a relationship going. Looks only get your foot in the door. If you don't have looks, then it just takes a bit longer to get that door open. People with low self esteem generally attract partners which are generally more nurturing. May not be tabloid attractive but it is a trait that you have because of the environment you grew up in. Self esteem can be improved by motivating and making that person feel important to you. Making this trait 'not attractive' only makes it worse. Some people just grew up in such environments that made them that way. If you are mature enough you can see how attractive a person can be looking pass this trait. My fiance was totally out of my league when we meet. Still she had the patience to work with my low self esteem and made me the man that deserves her. Does it seem a tad silly when an unattractive woman carries herself with confidence. She must be delusional to feel good about herself when her face looks like that No, I've never thought that. People can be confident for different reasons. Confidence is an attractive quality; it doesn't automatically make people attractive and you don't need to be physically attractive to be confident. It's nice when a person goes about their actions in a confident manner. From what I know out of my experience people are not 'confident' or 'not'. A smart person can be very confident about their intelligence and work but less confidant about their appearance, confident about their family being great but less confident about their hobby etc. I like a woman who is confident about her personality, profession and appearance to a good extent, although I seem to attract women who are insecure about their looks always, intelligence a lot less insecure. What I've learned is that people who are insecure about their bodies feel shame when exposed, spoiled and petted. Shame kills pleasure, initiative and spontaneity. They also thought 5 times before putting on lingerie and were a nervous wreck instead of knowing they looked ravishing and behaving like that. Also, in social and personal behavior and interaction, insecure people are easily hurt, disappointed, angered etc. Toxic and destructive behavior can follow. Instead of being suave and unbreakable, they are vulnerable and easily go off under pressure because underneath doing their best to be sociable, there's already pressure building up. Socially confident people mostly also nip bad situations in the bud before things get out of hand. They feel like they have the legitimacy to intervene and are most of the time skillful enough to succeed. It's this success that confirms their confidence even more for next time. I'll enter a dissenting opinion. I find most people don't actually have a good grasp on confidence and use it as a catch all for behaving in a way they find appealing, charming, disarming, etc. Arrogant people get women like confident men commonly dumped into expletive categories, though they are near pinnacles of confidence. Around reddit I think confidence is most commonly confused with charm and reasonable positive outlook. I honestly do not care if someone is confident or not. I care if they're competent, pleasing to be around and if romantically involved physically attractive to me as well. Insecure or confident, it really comes down to how a person externalizes those feelings. Hot women most certainly do not tend to be confident. I'm using hot as what someone might say if they're looking at a group of women and just rating them on looks alone. Some of the most psychologically damaged women I have met in my life have been women other people would call hot. To clarify, Hot women can be confident and a not-hot women can be insecure. I'm am just pointing out that in my 40+ years on this planet I have seen more insecure hot women then insecure not-hot women. Usually being the hottie, I can honestly say this is true beyond words. I didn't see myself as hot, so I worked to strengthen my knowledge and personality instead. I finally saw myself as I actually was. This got to my head a little bit, being young and just only recently starting too see this hottie business in which people spoke of. I became arrogant, I became demanding, I became a bully. People put up with my shit because I was hot. The fact that more people started to dote on me endlessly due to my looks was not lost on me one bit. I started to pay more attention to how I look, dress and primp myself. Flaws we're not allowed on such a perfect creature such as I. I still got plenty of doting on and attention, but I found I was craving the frank and to the point friendships that had slowly drifted away from me, ones I cared very much for. I knew one of the many many 'friends' who doted on me were not going to be honest and frank. To cut things rather short, he basically pointed out everything I have said here and more. I'm a smart and women like confident men girl whos fun to be around and nerd out with. My looks will fade, my women like confident men will not develop past the maturity in which it was stuck, my obsession on looks will only intensify over time as people stop fueling the long, long ego trip I was taking. I will probably never be the success I could potentially be personally and professionally and I will be miserable. After much, much discussion, my mission to alter the way I view myself and project myself to other people for validation had now begun. I nipped the problem in the butt before I was forced too by time. So, theres my personal story that dealt with the fabulous post you just made. Trust me, I know all too well. Some absolute beautiful disasters I have run into in my 27 years. The former me would have probably detailed probably in length at these things, a mixed potion of brag brag brag and women like confident men pats with good for you. I know I've come so far, I'm now a fairly level headed, confident woman. Not an intimidating, stand off-ish ie-bitchboasting, superiority complex screaming girl, riddled with such extreme insecurities type of 'confident' women which has been described in this thread. Its hard to not boast there, because I am quite accomplished in many of my endeavors and such. I still don't have much faith in my fellow gender who are what I was formally like, to recognize and work to reform bad and destructive habits. Its sad, but women like confident men isn't much I can really do to get through to a lot of them. I would be fighting a losing battle almost always. As someone who works the front desk of a building that has over 1000 visitors everyday, there are lots if women that pass by. I understand of course each person has their own way of navigating a building this is a public library with exhibitions btw but there are generally two types of people who come through - those who ignore the people at the front desk, and those who don't. This applies to both women like confident men and women. In the case of women, there are those who at the very least muster up a hello or more, and there are those who seem like they are actively avoiding eye contact or acknowledging whoever is working at the front desk. The latter happens sometimes even when they are trying to find a class happening in the building. Instead of asking for help which is readily available and obviously there, it seems like they're too shy just to ask some guy at the desk for help it's very obvious we are there to help. There's other cases of this shyness, but this one sticks out in my mind. Then there's the women that says hello and smile. Sometimes they'll come right up to the desk smiling, ask how I am, ask for help, etc. Obviously, I find the latter group far sexier. I think what you're saying is complete bollocks. There are women I find attractive only because they're confident. Moreover, since when are attractive women confident. How do you know for sure that it is the case. Because the one I ever hooked up with had all self-esteem problem. Confidence does not come from knowing you're good at something. It comes from knowing who you are. In fact, most traditionally hot women that I've met are the most insecure creatures on the planet. Does it seem a tad silly when an unattractive woman carries herself with confidence. Why would I look down on anyone for being confident. Looks are superficial and fleeting anyway, it's your composure and personality that will need to stand the test of time. Would you really pick a confident 5 or 6 over a diffident 7,8 or 9. Physical attraction is nice, but I've been in relationships where I either had to support someone in absolutely everything before, and dated women that needed to have their ego stroked constantly. I will get sick of that quickly, and have no issue leaving that to find someone else. The last person I dated was in the 8. Her drama, baggage, and manipulations much women like confident men by some kind of insecurity, mostly abandonment issues were more than I wanted to handle and made us incompatible. The woman I'm dating now is 7. She calls me on my shit just as often as I call her out on hers, and I love her for it. Nope, there are plenty of unattractive people this really isn't a gender thing that carry themselves with a ton of confidence and it is definitely not silly. Confidence to me is more about simply knowing what you want to do and not being afraid to do it. As for choosing between a confident 5 or 6 and a diffident 7, 8, or 9, it really depends on how much the guy in question likes confidence in comparison to physical attractiveness. For me, I love confidence, so I'd probably go for the 5 or 6. That being said, confidence is a personality trait that I won't pick up on unless she talks to me. If we're just stealing glances in a bar, I'm going to notice the 7, 8, or 9 more. Those who are truly confident will maintain composure and handle the situation appropriately. But you will see the fake confidence melt away from those who are insecure. I like to think that this question can't be answered for everyone with the generalization of saying Men But none the less, I know buddies that like confident women because he doesn't want to be the one constantly making the decisions. This question just can't be so easily defined with such a small statistic like a subreddit. I love a confident woman, regardless of attractiveness. They can still be internally insecure and shallow and be internally lonely. Having confidence just means women like confident men are secure in yourself and your abilities to women like confident men point where your external and superficial appearance does not influence your true personal bearing or self worth. That being said, while confidence is a huge plus, physical attractiveness is still a major factor in whether or not I'm drawn to a woman. If you're confident though, I'm definitely more apt to socialize with you or become your friend, regardless of looks. Men do like confident women, but a lot of women don't know what confidence is. Confidence is not telling people you're so hot, it's not being vicious or cruel to people. Most of us speak in logic and concrete ideas. As men, don't you sort of think, What's she so confident about. Oh so I need to start looking at faces now. It's difficult women like confident men improve your face. Never seen a butter-face, that is confident and put together. Confidence is very sexy, your looks only last for about 20years anyway. The key is that we have one word for a hundred different things. We use confidence to describe a wide range of qualities, that albeit similar are still different. There are some confident things that I find attractive. There are some confident things I am neutral on. And there are other confident things I find unattractive. I think people have widely varying characteristics in mind when they're talking about confidence and no confidence. Some people who are insecure need constant approval through others, are clingy, controlling, needy, overly jealous, aggressive, etc. So women like confident men course if a lack of confidence comes with a negative trait like one of those that's a turn-off. But a lack of confidence can also come with for the most part completely normal behavior. Some shyness, having trouble in very specific settings, avoiding certain situations, normal stuff like that. Which I think isn't a problem at all. I have the feeling that when people say they want a confident girl what they mean women like confident men that they want someone who isn't crippled by insecurities. Usually an insecure guy is equated with a people-pleasing doormant and an insecure girl is equated with a psycho who needs reassurance for every step she takes. When in reality, both types are quite rare from what I can tell. At least to me, thinking that your body or your looks are below average is completely fine if it doesn't influence anything else. If you don't want to show yourself to your partner, refuse to do certain positions because he may see a certain part of your body, that's when confidence is required. So no, I wouldn't pick a confident 5-6 over a normally insecure 7-9. Confidence to me doesn't change attractiveness, it's just that insecurity has the potential to kill existing atrtactiveness.

Just like with practice, a bunch of sticks on the forest floor becomes a bulletin board of what animals have passed through here, the connections between what the people you are socalizing with and how you act will become obvious. May not be tabloid attractive but it is a trait that you have because of the environment you grew up in. Confidence does not come from knowing you're good at something. Now, if a man really wants to do , he can try still the old-fashioned approach - and many do so. Here are 6 reasons why men like confident women. Not everyone is a match and sometimes, two people are just incompatible. Since confidence is primarily an attitude toward meeting life challenges of all kinds - and there's no shortage of challenges in the world - the essential attitude can still be cultivated and demonstrated. Attention on the other hand just get massively overwhelmed as it can only look at one piece of info at a time. Physical attraction is nice, but I've been in relationships where I either had to support someone in absolutely everything before, and dated women that needed to have their ego stroked constantly. I didn't see myself as hot, so I worked to strengthen my knowledge and personality instead.